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How Do We Flirt with Women? | LESBIAN VS BISEXUAL

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Marina Guajardo (7 hours ago)
Before my bf and I started dating, I disclosed to him that I’m looking for a husband and a wife. He was cool about it. So when I’m scouting for a woman, I let them know upfront what I want. I don’t get taken seriously but women my bf approaches seem into it. So I’ve sort of let him do the legwork. We’ve gone on a couple of dates but no one has stuck out. Any advice?
Claudia Woods (8 hours ago)
but like did anyone else already know which was bisexual and which was gay within the first 2 seconds of watching??
AnimePabu (1 day ago)
Omg the kitten!
Neva Nyx (1 day ago)
I'm looking for my unicorn poly. I pretty much have to disclose immediately. Usually I just say I want friends and if that could progress great. Not for just a weekend. *praying* I believe you exist unicorn!
Aileen Perez (1 day ago)
well fuck i guess im les then =.=
Isabel M. Babuglia (2 days ago)
Why isn't anybody talking about that jump cut at 5:30 and Alayna's "Oh, really? " comment. Do you guys have some back story together? 😏
Lily Bingham (3 days ago)
I dn flirt. I think i just stare awkwardly thats why im single forever
Gacha Emotion (3 days ago)
Everyone at My School Likes Me. Even Girls.But They Think I'm Straight..When I Am Really A Lesbian.. The Girls Who Like Me Don't Think I Like Them Witch I Really Like Them I'm Just Secretly A Lesbain But There's One Girl I Like At My School She's Different From all The girls Cause LITTELRY THEY FLIRT WITH ME! And she thinks I'm a baka😂 But I can see her blush at me and never acts like she dose yes she is a tomboy I'm kinna a girly girl😊 And its the opposite not only were the opposite but we love to stare at each other that makes me so nervous!😣❤❤❤ She always hold my hand when were gonna go play we never let go I just always never wanna let go her her hand she's so soft and one time me and her kissed😣😊😅😅 I loved it lmao were gonna confesse one Day!:3❤💕💕💕💕
Melabulis Danosaur (4 days ago)
Lesbian, plain and simple. BOOM IM A BISEXUAL YEAHHHHH
Amara Tasnim (4 days ago)
Cause i know some ppl in the lgbt community are unfortunately biphobic i always have this need to say something like, “DISCLAIMER I’M BI,” with women I’m talking to. Btw, I’m wayy more into women than men.
K R (4 days ago)
A lot of times when I am on a dating site and looking at a woman’s profile they will say that the only date lesbians meaning they won’t date bisexual women and being bisexual is so difficult and confusing at times it’s like do I want to be with a man or do I wanna be with a woman I think I’ve decided I want to be with a much older woman. I’m 31 so if there’s any single older woman let me know
bleeh o.O (7 days ago)
Why would we need labels, just love the person for who they r not their sex. Change my mind.
// Ribs (11 days ago)
Gosh once I went to a date with a girl from an app and all the sudden a boyfriend appears she forgot to tell this little detail gross
Tere. Sa.ntillan (11 days ago)
I now have a crush on Bre lol 😍 I love her personality lol she’s hilarious
Random V.V (13 days ago)
I'm so picky when it comes to guys but like when it comes to girl I would literally date almost anyone.
Limitless Living (14 days ago)
This was really a fantastic! You ladies are Hilarious! 😁🥂 Thanks! New subscriber for both if I Awesome chicks 😉🙌🏽
Jillian (15 days ago)
I appreciate exploring the different between each. Kinda curious what it would be like with a bisexual guy and gay guy doing something similar?
Amber Barrett (15 days ago)
Hanna Koller (16 days ago)
- you're picky - no I'm not *shows the bisexual text on her shirt*
Tilly Ivie (16 days ago)
I've watched this video too many times still fucking funny tho lmao
Lucie Ng (17 days ago)
When I flirted with my SO, it was just for the fun of being a jerk (I admit I was just a fuckboy and I absolutely do not deserve such a wonderful woman) but somehow she managed to seduce me by being herself. I am a lesbian (though I'm still confused about my gender let's just say I'm gay) and she's bisexual. It never really bothered me. I like femme lesbians so it doesn't really matter as long as we're both into each other. But my SO did told me that in my behaviour, I act like man and woman, including my flirting (but I mostly act manly). She said she was a bit scared I'd turn off when I'll know that she's a bisexual. But I don't really get why ?
01AnnaBanana10 (18 days ago)
I get really nervous to flirt with a lesbian because in the back of my mind I'm thinking about her assuming I'm also a lesbian
lizze lynn (18 days ago)
im bi
Nim Boo (19 days ago)
""...I hate when they ask why ...because it cannot be about them, the men. ...."" Nope, It's about you ... by your own admission. The only reason you hate men is because your heart is full of gay PRIDE. PRIDE is the root of all sin. PRIDE cometh before a fall. We won't hold it against you. But you will be happier without your PRIDE.
suspish fishy (20 days ago)
I'm bi my boyfriend is biromantic and we're kinda looking for another girl but I don't want to flirt with a girl who's pan or bi cause I know I would hate it if I couple tried to go for me without knowing one of the was bi
Bluee Eyed Jaamiie (20 days ago)
I always thought.. the difference between lezbian and Bi is that A lezbian is attracted to women only.. and Bi is being attracted to men and women.
dodie!atthedisco (22 days ago)
I genuinely don't understand why some lesbians don't date bi women. I am a lesbian who's attracted to femmes and generally, there are many more femme no women than lesbians. like fuck my girlfriend is bi, who cares lmao as long as you're into women asdkfk
Samantha Patone (24 days ago)
"theyre gonna find out whos the lesbian" me: *oh girl trust me i've known since the start of the video*
Elaine Cannon (27 days ago)
Any tips on how to get over that crippling worry of am i being like a skeezy bloke here when trying to flirt with ladies?
Devils Baby girl (28 days ago)
If only born this way came out when I was in 7th grade when people were calling me lesbian I would’ve screamed the lyrics singing my heart out💜
Self-hating Artist (29 days ago)
The thing Lesbians and Bisexuals have in common is that it hurts when you have a crush on a straight girl.
Mikey Lejan (1 month ago)
Why are bi girls so hot
The Eclectic Pagan (1 month ago)
I am genuinely bisexual, where I don't 'focus' so much on what's between the legs, but more between the ears :) but.. as a fem presenting female.. I have tons of issue flirting with women.. my current partner (female, lesbian) took almost a year of my chasing her to get it through her head I was interested *sigh* but likely, as you said alayna, it is difficult, being bi.. to have all the thoughts in the head of what might be going through someone else's head.. what are their feelings about a bi woman as opposed to a lesbian one.. ugh.. kind of exhausting :) Have had minor flak from lesbians (mostly) about being bi and the 'pick one or the other, figure it out mindset.. but I have never been one to fall into any label yet, so don't think I will any time soon ;) lovely video and yes Bre.. i will go subscribe now lol (you two are hilariously raw and real.. I appreciate that)
Vanessa (1 month ago)
i laughed my ass off at the end needless to say i'm subscribed now
everclaire (1 month ago)
This video has the epic eyebrow energy I've been needing
WolfieBear (1 month ago)
Classic sleeve roll
1 6 (1 month ago)
Damn... Pansexual (lol not this way or that way,I'd like to ve all over)... Way more options... I only ever go with lesbians when it comes to girls 😣😏😘 Been in a relationship with a guy and a girl for a long time...
Kae Bae (1 month ago)
If I could put my bisexuality into a percentage it'd be a 95% into women and 5% into men. Which is ironic because Ive dated more men than women but my longest relationship was with a woman. 😂👏🏽 Now I'm just scared to talk to anyone, male or female.
MUKBANG Super Stars (1 month ago)
Bisexuals are like one size fits all...but not fits all at the same time. I'm Bi but married to a man and functions as straight as I can be... Do I miss eating pussy? Absolutely... But doesn't mean i'm gonna go out and find me some... You can't have both just pick who's good for you..
MUKBANG Super Stars (1 month ago)
Just make sure you look good or the best you can be...make eye contact the not creepy kind then give the sweetest genuine smile you can give... People aren't dumb she will immediately catch the vibe that you're interested... Then talk to her... And don't pour all of your issues in ... Its just the first meeting ...let her enjoy you...she will know you bit by bit later on... Same for you...if it doesn't work move on...
I like how both of you are accepting and seeing the issue with the society itself, and how you say it is ok to want to have fun, or to search for a threesome. You aren't just attacking couples who want to experiment. I like how open-minded this conversation felt. I do agree though that it can be super frustrating to look for a girl only to find out later that she has a bf and wants to have a threesome. It can be annoying
EmmyJewelV (1 month ago)
her laugh got me😍😍😍🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
Qyung Beats (1 month ago)
Flirting is when you do a video about flirting.
Cherokee Ward (1 month ago)
I'm pansexual an I have the worst trouble flirting with....man or female. Pretty sure I am gonna just...die alone with just my cat an dog.
Lia K (1 month ago)
Honesly, as a lesbian I never have to flirt. I say my sexuality and every girl wants to try it. I love how open the most girls are and they are still respectful
Marian Woodington (1 month ago)
I love how this was supposed to be a vs. but then it turned into a "lets make the world a better place". I LOVE IT!!!!!
Dee DoubleU (1 month ago)
You both are gorgeous. <3
angel eyes (1 month ago)
i am skeptic with who i flirt with online because alot of men be using fake profiles to inbox me. i am still trying to find the woman of my dreams to get married to.where can i have a best chance of meeting bi girls online? i live in jamaica
Ew, Corona XD. Sorry.
V. M. A (1 month ago)
quite out of topic here. as a stright guy, I'm attracted to the girl in the right (the bisexual ones). even if I didn't know that she is a bisexual, she still look alike a stright women to me. at the other hand, the women in left side (lesbian) seems too masculine. and most of the lesbians looks like this. so I assumes the lesbian is much esier in life to pick up cause' any lesbian or bisexual will definitely notice her as a lesbian.
Jane van Zyl (1 month ago)
What a hoot... 🤣
Alisha Carroll (1 month ago)
I'm bi and I'm legit 80% attracted to girls & 20% attracted to lads cuz, well... girls are hella cute, and I'm just attracted to guys sometimes I guess 😂
MsXpert01 (1 month ago)
Seriously they have so much fun......a genuine connection❤️
Ivy Marie (2 months ago)
Omg I needed this 😭😭😭
Liam Murray (2 months ago)
Fucking Eye-Opening. Gals. A bunch of good lads.
jeannine sarrazin (2 months ago)
How would you react if a girl turns you down? I'm to scared to flirt because of That. Like she would say " eww disgusting " or something like That.
rv dez rat (2 months ago)
Nail her,,,,,,, I did!!!
Luxy Porteous (2 months ago)
“Let’s talk about it” *gmm intro plays*
Om Love (2 months ago)
Omg... this video was aDORABLE!! I laughed out loud. You are both so cute!! I've only been with men but have found myself attracted to women since I was a young girl. I think I am probably bi-sexual but have never explored. Im 52. My boyfriend ... told me he was a straight man when we first began our relationship but months later shared he had once 'tried' sex with a man just to see what a real penis felt like b/c he and his girlfriend at the time were exploring with toys. He said he didn't much like it and that he 'didn't even get off'. He later slipped during a sexual encounter with me that "he was the bottom guy" when he would have sex with men. *Record scratch* Wait... WHAT?? ! That was nearly a year into our relationship. THEN... we went out one night and we landed in a gay bar (not b/c we wanted to be in a gay bar but it used to be a straight bar when I was a young woman and I was being nostalgic.Long story) There were both men and women there that night. He spent the entire evening flirting with the men. Then the next morning said he was drugged when I asked him to explain what was happening the night before. I waited til the next morning b/c he was really drunk and I didn't want it to be a fight. I just wanted an open and honest conversation about it. I now no longer trust him. For this and other reasons. So... Your 'be honest and upfront' advice is EXTREMELY important if you are seeking an actual relationship with someone. Awesome video!! Thanks so much xo
lily v (2 months ago)
1:09 ah yes. the bisxual
Kelly Grote (2 months ago)
I love this and I'm glad you commented on people seeing bisexuals differently. I feel like even in the LGBT community, there is a huge problem with bi erasure.
I’m 80% into girls and 10% into boys and 10% nothing
It's Just Jenna (2 months ago)
The bi sexual bob tells it all
Anastasia Bolter (2 months ago)
I don't agree with the bisexual chick. I'm bisexual and I like both equally. I don't make out with chicks just for my boyfriend. Lol hope that was a joke 😂
Crystal Ayala (2 months ago)
MORE MORE SMORE! I just discovered your channel yesterday! And I think your just the funniest! Keep making content and thank god you're bi!!! You got it right on the head! I love it 😂
person unknown (2 months ago)
Lmao they are both CUTE lol😂😍🤤
Butterfly Forever (2 months ago)
You should add in pansexual too it’s super common I’m pan
StarSki11 (2 months ago)
Butterfly Forever same 😊
Gumfry (2 months ago)
I don't understand the stigma against Bisexuals. People always claiming how they're fake or whatever, but that doesn't really make any sense?? like is it so crazy that someone wouldn't have a problem dating a girl or a guy? weird to me how people can't wrap their head around it
Kirsten Kennedy (2 months ago)
It's like Fight Club... Lol
Betty Lazarczyk (2 months ago)
All of you make me sick😷
Gummy Bear (2 months ago)
I’m bi and so fucking good at flirting with girls but when I comes to flirting with boys I end up talking about spilt chocolate milk (true story)
Mitzi Hidalgo (2 months ago)
I don’t even know how I would get close to flirting with a woman. I hope one day I get a girlfriend though.
blueascetic (2 months ago)
I'm bi and I need help.. maybe I live somewhere where there are absolutely no lesbians/bi's, but I've never been lucky with women or even tried to flirt with them. Or dated a woman. But plenty of men? I'm so confu u uuuused
Tulpen23 (2 months ago)
1) I really needed this video right now on so many levels 2) I would love hanging out with these two ladies - I think we'd constantly laugh ourselves to tears.
sunday glamour (2 months ago)
as a lesbian I hate this series. Like why make difference between lesbian and bisexuals so obviously apparent even more. People are people ———— no words
Just Breathe (2 months ago)
OMG! I feel exactly like that whenever I try (and usually fail) flirting with women... I always feel pressure to "come out" as bi.
Maranda Adkins (2 months ago)
Umm what?! I'm bi and have been in faithful 8 yr relationship with a woman. No 3rd party! Ppl really assume that If you're bi it's a game or you'll eventually cheat... No!!!
Nim Boo (2 months ago)
There is a little bi in every LES bi AN.
Victoria R (2 months ago)
I feel exactly same im bisexual but its only a sexual thing for me and i have no idea how to talk to woman i feel im beautiful but idc if woman like me
Temple Banks (2 months ago)
I wanted to watch the video but all the laughing turned me off. In the ladies defense maybe it’s nervousness but I loos interest in an important topic because of it.
Erin Buyense (2 months ago)
Discovering i was bisexual makes dating and beginning friendships weird. I keep going back and forth with my motivations why I like someone. Like hmmmmmm am I having friend feelings? or want to be their girlfriend feelings? Do I have a crush on you or just want to hang out and have you be my bff?
Fiona Green (2 months ago)
Question: How do you know the person you are trying to flirt with is into girls?! Every girl I like turns out to be straight!
Ashley Anderson (2 months ago)
This really hot lesbian girl was flirting with me once. I had a crush on her from the very beginning, and because I liked her so much, I misconstrued her flirting as just being nice. I totally kicked myself in the ass later when she told me (after I started dating this guy) that she really wanted to be with me. I totally swallowed my heart. That girl was my dream girl in every way (not just her looks; we had this energy between us; loved a lot of the same things; hated a lot of the same things; when we disagreed about something, we both had a shrug-it-off type attitude).
Ashley Anderson (2 months ago)
I’m terrified of flirting with women; partially because of the idea that I will be turned away based on being bi.
Ashley Anderson (2 months ago)
Damn, my gaydar is on point. I knew immediately which of you was the lesbian and which was the bisexual.
adventuresofkt (2 months ago)
My activism, my community, and *especially the fact that I like women* -- makes me queer. Not the number of guys I've dated. When men are the defining factor of my sexuality to the LGBTQ+ community in and outside of it, everyone except me gets to decide how I go about the world, and it's exhausting. Dismissing bisexuality to attention seeking, just for the male gaze, a college girl's pilot, a bad encounter, when we have no clue what the next person is grappling with? It's inevitably your choice who you end up dating, and individual experiences are valid! So on that note, let's try to stop monolithing an entire group. Passively shutting down people in the community for not being gay enough comes of as performative by dismissing being queer to a praxis. Gay is not cookie-cutter. Anyone can be gay, and that's why this space was created. P.S. These are thoughts on some random comments & not the video which was gr8! :)
Christen Summers (2 months ago)
Am I the only one who thinks they would make such a cute couple?
ry fowler (2 months ago)
i could immediately tell which one was lesbian and which was bi and i was right. gaydar much? 😂
I love how I assumed who was bi or lesbian just by the thumbnail, and I was completely right
Tayet4Buri (2 months ago)
Being told by homosexuals that I'm gay and just refuse to leave the closet and the heterosexuals telling me that I just want to be 'extra' really messed with my ability to flirt/date like a non-crazy person.
Liz Narducci (2 months ago)
More more more!!!
Morgan Hamilton (2 months ago)
I am definitely a bi sexual Who is more into women then men and I cant take my eyes off Bree! 💕
Sarah Choi (2 months ago)
The lesbian reminds me of Mose from Ned’s declassified
wiikendii (2 months ago)
I am always nervous that the girl I am flirting in the clug is only flirting with me "for fun" or "male attention",
Victoria Foster (2 months ago)
I know the difference between Bi and Pan but I was curious why more women/people come out as Bi vs Pan.
Jade-Keiara Boyce (2 months ago)
I feel this so much an there were so many times where I've been like my life would be easier if i were just gay and not bi but that's an entirely different can of worms
Faby Apellido (2 months ago)
I think Bre looks like Swiss player Ramona Bachmann... 🤔🤷
beachboy boobybuilder (2 months ago)
I have a question. There is this cute young lady who is a librarian. She is nice and polite. She smiles when she sees me and has a good chat with me. However, she has very short cut hair, she has tattoos on her right arm and she dresses/looks like a tom-boy. Is she a lesbian?. How can you tell the difference between a lesbian and bisexual chick?.
Cristozen1 (2 months ago)
Eye contact and smile. Then see if she reacts by smiling with direct eye contact back.

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